Often everyday we see our Facebook friends change their status frequently. I can see at certain time an average of every hour there'll be more than 300 live feeds. Well, I enjoy reading them especially when I'm bored mainly besides knowing what my friends are up to, I would come accross interesting remarks. But, have it ever occur in our mind, did we cross the line by the so called 'self-promoting' efforts?
A lot of my friends invited me to join pages and groups....and...I did. Till today, everytime I visit the groups or read updates from the pages I'm in, I would come across many interesting things and sometimes I gag when I'm viewing public debates on specific topics.
Now, here's something you could give a thought of, how can you ensure that you don't elicit similar reaction? I got right here a few social-networking etiquette that might be useful.
Know your place. Networking sites like LinkedIn and Plaxo are designed to help users advance their careers. So it's fine to post updates there about your latest business project, promotion, or blog entry -- your connections expect it, and will do the same.
Likewise, it's okay to indulge in modest self-hype in a Twitter feed ("I'll be giving a speech today at the Kiwanis club"); if people don't want your updates, they simply won't follow you. But on a mostly social site like Facebook, your friends should hear about only the big career stuff, not minor exploits. Otherwise you risk seeming self-absorbed or, worse, a braggart.
Edit yourself. Unless you're Brad Pitt or maybe Jon Gosselin, none of your business contacts care if you nicked yourself shaving this morning (to be honest, your friends probably don't care either). To avoid bothering work connections with a barrage of personal details, use privacy settings to limit their access to nonwork parts of your profile.
Share info, not hype. The updates that do your career the most good show off your expertise, not your accomplishments. If you're a financial analyst, for instance, offer some insight on the banking crisis and include links to information on how people can protect their assets, instead of touting your latest appearance on CNBC. One or two work-related updates a day should be the max for most sites (Twitter is an exception); in fact, one or two a week is probably plenty.
"Before you post, ask yourself if you'll be providing value," says Mitch Joel, author of Six Pixels of Separation. "If not, you're just being obnoxious."
Wait for an intro. No one likes a cold call. "I never accept a friend request from someone I don't know," says Kirsten Dixson, co-author of Career Distinction: "Stand Out by Building Your Brand." If you're eager to connect professionally with someone you've never met, try to find a contact in common. Then send the middleman a note explaining why you want to be introduced.
Do unto others. "These sites are real communities," says Tamar Weinberg, author of "The New Community Rules: Marketing on the Social Web." "Help the people around you and you help yourself." So be generous with recommendations of colleagues and unstinting with advice when asked. Your contacts will usually be glad to return the favor.
(reference : 'Mind Your Facebook Manners' by Dan Kadlec, Money Magazine)
